Finding an internship is just like getting a date
When we first got the internship process beat over our head the Career Management Center made this great analogy about the internship search . . . it’s like dating. Initially I thought this was the most ridiculous thing I had ever heard, and if this was in fact the case I was definitely not going to have any luck getting an internship for the summer! Tonight I had a pre date/speed date to my interview date. There were four people I had to work around the room to shake hands, smile and get as much information out of them before I moved on to the next person. There is always a lot of initial awkwardness during the pre date, but it went very well and I was able to listen to what they had to say. Listening proved to be very valuable and helped me prepare better for the interview. It even got me a second date!
Despite the ridiculous analogy getting an internship is like dating. There is a lot of courting as student’s network like crazy with alumni and any contact they can get at the company. Then they get invited on a date and the two meet up to see if they are compatible. A lot of internships are looking for “fit” which is really just a nice way of saying if they like you and want to introduce you to their group of friends. Hopefully they ask you to be their girlfriend of boyfriend for the summer and ultimately everyone hopes they get married after they graduate. Kind of a weird way to put it, who knew dating, was so much work!






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